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13.4.07

我决定变坏了...

" 其实每个男孩，本来都是想做一个感情专一的好男人的。
其实每个男孩，本来看女孩子都是看脸而不是胸部的。
其实每个男孩，本来都是不会讲黄色笑话的。
其实每个男孩，本来都是渴望爱一个人直到永远的。

只是，没有任何女孩爱这样的男孩，
她们觉得这样的男孩太幼稚，太古板，没有情趣。
于是男孩开始改变，变成女孩喜欢的那种
嘴角挂着坏坏的笑；玩世不恭或者幽默。

开始学会说甜言蜜语而不是心里想说的话。
开始学会假装关心，学会给女孩送小饰物讨好她。
学会如何追求，如何把握爱情。
或者看破红尘，游戏情场，成为女人恨恨的那种男人。

他们可以很容易俘获女孩子的心，
但是他们也会在黑的夜里叼着烟流泪。

心里有爱的时候，没有女孩。
有了女孩，却永远没有了爱的感觉。

在听到女人抱怨世上没有一个好男人时候，
他们不会再去努力做个好男人，只是微笑着擦肩而过。"

我决定变坏了... =.=

posted by 志鹏 @ 1:47 AM  

17 Comments:

  • At April 13, 2007 at 3:34 AM , Blogger 桃花岛 said...

    变坏也不一定有女生会喜欢。
    那些会喜欢坏男生的女生，我看还是不要喜欢的好。
    哈哈，个人意见。。

    还是做自己比较好。。。

     

  • At April 13, 2007 at 7:40 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    你从哪儿听来的胡言乱语！
    如果社会还认为我是个女生的话，我担保大多数女生还是喜欢好男生的~
    同学，冷静点，现在像你（和你们家乔杰）这种好男生已经不多了（抽冷气），不可以变坏啊。

     

  • At April 13, 2007 at 8:38 AM , Blogger 志鹏 said...

    哈哈!其实两位说的也有道理.
    不过,说真的,女生是真的比较喜欢
    有一点坏坏的男生,
    亲身经历,不得不认呀! =(

    这篇文章,看了之后的确有点感动,
    而且真的觉得很贴切.
    我小时候就真的以为自己
    如果乖乖对别人好,
    对自己喜欢的人好,
    就一定会有甜美的果实.
    结果,每次都把树吓得不敢开花,
    甚至枯萎.

    有一点点遗憾... HEHE...

     

  • At April 13, 2007 at 10:13 AM , Blogger 言午 said...

    其实每个女孩，想要的都是一个感情专一的好男人。
    其实每个女孩，想要的都是被一个人捧在手心直到永远的爱情。
    其实每个女孩，想听的都是男孩心里想说的话。
    其实每个女孩，想要的是精神上的关心，并不是物质上的关心。

    只是，没有任何男孩明白女孩的想法。
    女孩等了好久，可男孩天性就是太笨，总是没法猜透女孩要的。
    所以，女孩决定看破红尘，挑没脑没品坏坏的男孩好了，反正男孩没一个聪明。

    在听到男孩抱怨女孩要求太多又奇怪的时候，她们不会再去努力解释，只是微笑着擦肩而过。


    以上并没存有性别攻击的意思。

     

  • At April 13, 2007 at 3:33 PM , Blogger 志鹏 said...

    哈哈！这种东西很难说的．
    不过有些女孩确实这样想．．．

    ＂只是，没有任何男孩明白女孩的想法。
    女孩等了好久，可男孩天性就是太笨，
    总是没法猜透女孩要的。＂

    有时侯男生可能会迟钝一些，
    但其实还是明白的，
    只是不懂得表达而已．
    女生有时候要求太苛刻．．．

     

  • At April 13, 2007 at 6:46 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    我本来也是要回好像Esther那样的comment的。不过被她捷足先登。哈。

     

  • At April 13, 2007 at 8:49 PM , Blogger 志鹏 said...

    你可是慧心？　ＨＥＨＥ．．．

     

  • At April 14, 2007 at 1:13 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    什么叫亲身经历啊，
    鹏鹏你再亲身经历还能比女生更亲身吗？
    不喜欢抽烟的男生。好多都是为了装帅才抽的。

     

  • At April 14, 2007 at 3:06 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Idiot. You just have to be yourself, changing the way you are just to suit the whims of the whiny female is obviously not the way. That's called wei3 qu1 qiu2 quan2, not xi1 sheng1 wei3 da4. chehhh

    The argument of guys not being able to understand girls can be applied both ways, I don't believe girls know exactly what a guy wants either. They just want to be right all the time, so they conveniently put the blame on men. Now haven't we all heard that a bit too often already?

    Nobody, man or woman, is worth the effort in change. After all, once the feeling subsides you'll revert to your old self anyway.

    On a side note, you just need to be a gentleman and treat a woman right. Though once again this is pretty subjective. Not all smokers are bad people, if a smoker can bring home the bread, provide and care for the lady like a true man while smoking out of her vicinity, I think he's a true man. After all, his smoking only serves to the detriment of HIS health and no one else, so who is anyone else to complain?

    Conversely, if a non-smoker does everything accordingly but goes home only to argue with his wife while spewing expletives all the way and even resorting to violence to end the dispute, he's nothing more than a bane to man's name.

    I suggest you exercise some objectivity, even in this, and not be too judgemental on people like what I've read. Ultimately it still depends on what your definition of "bian4 huai4" is. hehe

     

  • At April 14, 2007 at 10:38 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    wah the second anonymous seems very "on fire"....
    cool down man...we are just having some leisure comments.

     

  • At April 14, 2007 at 12:50 PM , Blogger 志鹏 said...

    哈哈！没事，没事．
    他是我的朋友，
    没有恶意的．

    其实我只是开玩笑地说
    "　我决定变坏了...　"　，
    没想到竟然引起那么大的回响．．．

    我还没有那么俗，
    会跟着别人的脚步走．
    ＣＨＥＨ．．．

     

  • At April 14, 2007 at 2:08 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

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  • At April 14, 2007 at 2:09 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Oh, oops. Didn't realise I sounded so pissed until I read it again.

    Actually I was referring to a certain asshole laaaa hope u don't end up like him. heheh

    (Not bad eh prof you can still identify my style. good good :p)

     

  • At April 14, 2007 at 7:50 PM , Blogger 志鹏 said...

    I am sure i won't,
    u this kanasai. =p
    Take care.

     

  • At April 14, 2007 at 10:20 PM , Blogger Teoh said...

    坏男人--拿来当男朋友
    好男人--拿来当老公
    很像是一个女生说的
    所以现在当坏男人先吧
    等要当人家的老公时在改吧
    哈哈

     

  • At April 15, 2007 at 3:21 AM , Blogger 言午 said...

    not bad...tis blog of urs manage to stir up big response.

     

  • At April 15, 2007 at 7:47 PM , Blogger 志鹏 said...

    No lo, i don't like
    无谓的争论．．．＝．＝＂

     

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